I knew I wasn’t straight for most of my life but have only had sex with one guy, an ostensibly straight friend in high school, and it was a secret on/off thing that involved a lot of cheating and eventually blew up our friendship and several others. I’m a 31-year-old bi man married to a bi woman.
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I Just Want Her to Change One Part of Her Body.
